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Gynophobiac!!!

Have you ever felt out of breath in a situation ??
Your heartbeat is rising and you are almost sweating.
But the most surprising thing is that the fear is entirely irrational. Well, then you could have a PHOBIA.
*(this a probability).*
Why I decide to talk about Gynophobia today because we live in a world of varied emotional experiences and their irregular physical expressions. And gynophobia is no less than this. It can severely impair one’s work, social life or even everyday activities.
So how do we identify the monster? The symptoms are easily noticeable; these people tend to avoid direct communication with women, deliberately keep away from social occasions where they could meet up with one or even get terribly anxious when they are physically close to one. Another mark of this is an intentional omission in the address to women. *(like the previous lines)*
So what next? Are gynophobics misogynists? Are they gymnophobic and genophobic too?
Well, there is a lack of evidence to claim any such results, but one thing is for sure, gynophobic is not a binary term. You can’t ( actually oughtn’t) classify people into gyno phobiacs and philliacs. And as it goes with every phobia, it could be linked to personal trauma, an emotional exaggeration or even be a part of social phobia.


So how do you treat a gynophobic suspect? Although it does not seem proper you can bully him out of it; Or be a part of his battle with himself. And how you do that is your choice. ( And I learnt from trusted sources, a lot of people under the #sakt_launda tag are gynophobic or just heart broken, although I cant site those.)

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