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Why Prayer Matters

As a remarkable gift of human civilisation, we have religions. But these divisions have nothing to do with whether god exists or why we need to pray. Let's consider the real-life mathematics of prayer. Imagine you're hoping for a loved one’s health to improve. The act of praying—whether you’re religious or a sceptic—is rarely a calculation of certainty. Rather, it’s a sum of “what ifs”
Whether you pray or not is a multiplied probability of the three 
  • God's existence, and him listening to you
  • The effort it would take you to pray
  • What you risk losing!!!!
I will now build up examples to show you how the interplay of these probabilities shapes our prayers. To start the belief in God. That in fact forms the very basis of prayers, but even those who do not believe in God will also have to admit that there are some happenings which our physics simply can’t decode.
Think of a parent pacing a hospital corridor. In those moments, the "risk" feels infinite, the "effort" of a whispered prayer trivial. In everyday life, reciting a blessing before a meal or pausing in gratitude for the sunrise is nearly effortless—why not take that chance, however small? When rituals demand more—fasting, long recitations, pilgrimages—people naturally weigh the personal costs versus the potential gain or peace of mind. Prayers become a mirror, reflecting what we value and the stakes we perceive in our daily lives.
So we are left with two methods to approach this: we assume God exists and continue to do so, till we are able to decode all of the universe's design and unveil the future, OR at least know there is no design at all. The seemingly more accepted way is to accept God exists till your worthy counterparts are done with the above-mentioned tedious job. As you guessed, that's what most of the world does right now…
Now, the other two determiners are more intricately related, the efforts and the risk of the result. If your risk is seemingly very high, you would pray. Think of your dear one in danger…. Or when you are done with all efforts, and you know that now it’s all on luck.
Here, I would say prayers help us to buy some patience, within which luck goes on its course to determine the results, and the biased world gives all credit to prayers. Sometimes, the prayers that “work” become the loudest success stories. Awards or positive outcomes are often publicly attributed to prayer, while countless quiet moments with no miraculous results fade silently. This social bias shapes our view of prayer’s power, reinforcing rituals even when causality is uncertain.

Apart from that, sometimes the effort it requires to pray decides whether you pray or not. If it were two lines of hymns, anybody would do that, even just as an insurance. As the efforts become more and more demanding, people tend to rationally evaluate the risk-to-effort ratio. But here, the social bias plays a very important role in announcing the true winners of the tug-of-war.
Many people around the world have a daily prayer, which is more of a Thanksgiving call to the elements of Mother Nature. Another hope-building exercise by humans who have learnt from evolution what havoc nature can wreak!!

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